So it was a wedding weekend for me.

Saturday, I met with bridesmaids for the first time. Since I chose blue for my wedding color, yet want all the bridesmaids to be able to pick a dress that makes them comfortable, Ed’s daughters and I went to Home Depot and picked up paint samples to pass out. Each bridesmaid chose a different color blue, from light to dark, so there won’t be issues with the women trying to match colors and not quite making it work. The dresses are deliberately different shades of blue, but shades that all work together.

I also passed out folders that included hotel information, reception information, a list of bridesmaids with contact information and a complete guest list. Seriously, I looked like a CEO. But I do remember being a bridesmaid and trying to figure out how to reach various guests for a bridal shower or bachelorette party and just being completely flummoxed.

The bridesmaids all got along though, and they’re going to make special efforts to make sure that Ed’s daughters are included in the planning process. The girls had a blast, telling me over and over what nice friends I had.

Then Sunday, my mother and I went to a wedding expo in Massachusetts. There were a lot of vendors there, and that was a huge help. There’s nothing like being able to get a bunch of ideas and contact information in one stop.

My mother signed me up for all sorts of contests. If there was a chance I might win something, my mom happily handed over my name and address to anyone that asked. So I’ll be getting junk mail from my wedding until my 25th anniversary. If I actually win $25,000, then it will be worth it.

If you’re interested in checking when and where there will be a wedding expo in your area, click here.