I read an article recently that Couples Resorts are offering wedding podcasts at their Jamaica location. That way, if friends and family can’t go to Jamaica, they can at least  go online and watch you exchange vows with your significant other. 

Destination weddings are certainly an option for those seeking a romantic location and a small wedding with a built in honeymoon.

The upside includes a small, cost-effective wedding (usually, you can find an all-inclusive package deal that won’t contain unpleasant post-wedding surprises); you can choose an exotic, once-in-a-lifetime location; they’re virtually stress-free since on-site coordinators handle most of the planning; they’re casual and fun (one friend got married in Hawaii and went snorkeling on her wedding day) and they’re virtually free of family politics, since mothers and mothers-in-law won’t pop down to Bermuda to berate your choice of reception hall. 

However, there are some downsides. While some resorts may be offering the podcast, many of your family and friends will not be able to attend your wedding. Those that do, will be staying for the duration of your honeymoon. 

If you decide a destination wedding is right for you, make sure you know what you’re getting. Research your options and ask lots of questions, including: 

- What is included with the wedding? What costs extra?

- Do you have a dedicated wedding planner? Does that cost extra?- Is music provided?

- Will someone be available to iron my wedding dress?

- Do you provide flowers? Photography? Wedding cake? Music?

- How many guests are allowed for the package price? What’s the cost of exceeding the number of guests?

- What options are available if it rains?

- Can wedding guests get a discount on the room?

- Is a honeymoon suite included?

- Can you provide a minister of a specific faith or a religion-free ceremony?

- How much of a down payment is needed to reserve the wedding?

- What is your cancellation policy?

- What are the marriage laws of your country? 

Remember, get your agreement in writing!