There’s some cool services that can take a heap ’o stress off the bride. Many of them are in Boston, but they may be worth traveling for.

Some of the neatest things I’ve heard of lately:

n Seams (978 473-3398) – This company will alter a vintage or family gown to fit you, and, from all accounts, make it you look fabulous.

n Perfectly Noted (info@perfectlynoted.com) – Okay, this is a little sketchy in the world of all things bridal, and I’d never (publicly) recommend it, but if you were, for example, wantyourthankyoucardswrittenforyou, these guys will do it.

n A fun money saver – Buy your flowers in bulk – think the local grocery store – and float a flower in a mason jar filled with water for a centerpiece.

n Modern Pinup (modernpinup@gmail.com) – They’ll paint your lingerie on for a naughty wedding-night surprise.